Put another way, start from what "research use only" actually means, because most of the downstream questions are answered by it. It means no release testing, no pharmacovigilance, no regulatory obligation to you, and no recourse.
What a verification listing at VendorInvestigate or a rating at PeptideMeter actually evidences is that some process was applied — which is more than nothing and considerably less than an audit. The useful question is what the process consists of and whether its inputs are independently obtained samples or vendor-supplied ones.
A parcel sitting for eight to fourteen days at a customs facility is overwhelmingly likely to be queue rather than scrutiny. Volumes at international sorting facilities are high, tracking updates are batched, and a gap in scanning is not evidence of inspection. Escalating during that window generally achieves nothing except creating a record.
The economics of pooled purchasing are not specific to this field, and the failure modes documented in the general literature on informal collective purchasing — organiser default, quality dispute without adjudication, and free-riding on testing costs — are exactly the ones that recur here.
The limitation of the red-flag approach is that it is asymmetric: it identifies bad documentation reliably and good material only weakly.
The evidence you want is boring: the same result, from an independent laboratory, across more than one lot, over more than one year.